I am deeply sorry for your loss and for the family. Losing someone we admire and were privileged to meet can be incredibly difficult. Mimi Parker's talent and contributions to the Low band have left a lasting impression on many of us. It is a testament to her musical prowess that she has received extensive coverage in the music press. May her beautiful music and memories of her comfort you in this time of mourning. Her family may want to consider creating beautiful grass level headstones with vase in her memory.